Daily life · For au pairs
Actually learning the language in a year
Most au pairs arrive at A1 and leave at A2. Here is how the ones who reach B2 do it differently.
5 min read · Updated January 2026
Use the children
Young children speak slowly, repeat constantly, use a small vocabulary and do not judge your grammar. Read their picture books aloud, sing their songs, and let them correct you — they love it and it works.
Protect the course
Two or three sessions a week, at a set time in the written schedule, that the family respects. This is a visa condition in many countries and it is also where you meet the friends who will speak the language with you.
Change one daily input
- Switch your phone and streaming subtitles to the local language
- Listen to local radio during the school run
- Do your food shopping without a translation app
- Ask the family for fifteen minutes of dinner in their language, every night
Take the exam
Booking a B1 or B2 exam for month ten changes how you study for the ten months before it. It also gives you something concrete to show for the year, which matters for university applications and jobs back home.
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